Finding My Identity

When many people think of Maddie Kohler, many think of an athlete. When I think of myself, I think of an athlete along with many different characteristics as well. I have been involved in sports since the day I was born. Whether it be attending my siblings’ games or attending my own, I have been surrounded by athletics. Through sports, I have been able to express myself and impress people, as well as find joy and happiness in teamwork. As I entered high school, I had to choose what sports I wanted to play; I simply could not play them all. As a result, I chose to play tennis and basketball. In my senior year, I am a captain for both sports. I found joy and happiness in leading my team to victory. I find happiness in encouraging people to do their best. I am not the tallest person on the court, but once people see my abilities, they are surprised. I prove people wrong when they believe I will have a hard time playing because I am so short. Sports have helped me become competitive, compassionate, and a leader.

I also found part of my identity when I went on December Unitas Retreat. It was one of the greatest experiences of my life. I reflected on my life, my family, and my friends. I shared many things with people that others would not know. I became confident. I made best friends with my group including someone in this class, Brook Sabia! We have always been friendly, but on retreat we really connected. We comforted each other and asked each other for advice. Our friendship grew stronger as well as my individuality. I now realize that many girls, especially in this school, are going through the same events I am. I realize I am not alone in this world even when sometimes it feels like I am.

My family has also influenced my life since the day I was born. Although we are related by blood, many of my family members do not have the same views. However, we are still a family. My family has encouraged me to be an individual and do things that others have not done before me. Each one of my sisters is an individual in their own way. My family, most especially my parents, pushes me to my best potential. Even though it may be annoying at the time, everything will pay off in the end. Being the youngest child, I am constantly observing my family as a whole. My sisters are very successful and happy in their lives. With hard work, I believe I will be just as successful as they are. I am a hardworking individual and my family has helped me get to where I am today.